If your dog experiences anxiety, grooming can become a challenging task. Here, our vets at White House offer tips on keeping your dog calm during grooming and reducing anxiety.

Grooming Anxious & Nervous Dogs

Caring for your dog's well-being involves actively grooming them. If left unattended, matted fur, goopy ears, and overly long nails can cause discomfort and potentially lead to more serious health issues.

Grooming, encompassing activities such as bathing, brushing, ear cleaning, and nail trimming, can turn into a challenging experience if your dog is nervous or anxious about the process.

How do you keep a dog calm while grooming?

Begin Grooming Young

Whether you groom your dog at home or take them to a professional groomer, it's beneficial to initiate a grooming routine when your dog is very young. Starting early with brushing, nail trimming, and ear cleaning helps your dog perceive grooming as a regular activity rather than something to be afraid of.

  • At-Home Grooming: Beginning at-home grooming while your puppy is young is a great way for both of you to feel relaxed and comfortable about the grooming process. Beginning grooming while your puppy is still small and manageable will also help you to become more confident.
  • Professional Groomers: If you have a fearful or anxious puppy, professional groomers are trained in a variety of methods to help put your dog at ease. Taking your puppy to the groomer while young will help teach them that visiting the groomer is a normal and enjoyable day out.

Stay Calm

Whether you groom your dog yourself or prepare to take it to the groomer, staying calm is crucial. If your dog detects nervousness in you, they may perceive a reason to be afraid.

  • At-Home Grooming: Prepare all the grooming tools before bringing your dog into the room. Being prepared will help you to remain calm throughout the grooming process. Speak to your dog calmly and let your dog safely sniff and explore tools such as brushes and clippers. Wait until your dog is calm before beginning grooming, and have treats handy to reward good behavior. 
  • Professional Groomer: If possible, consider walking your dog to the groomer. The added exercise provided by a walk is a great way to burn off nervous energy and help your dog arrive at the groomer's feeling calm and confident. 


Calm your dog down before grooming by engaging them in vigorous exercise. Take them on long walks, let them run, play fetch with a ball, or let them interact with other dogs at the park. These activities will help sedate your dog naturally without relying on medication. Grooming becomes a relaxed and straightforward process once your dog has expended their energy.

Positive Reinforcement

Using positive reinforcement proves effective in training your dog to remain calm and relaxed during grooming. Teach your dog good grooming manners by offering treats and praise when it sits still for brushing or allows you to clip a nail. Stay calm, positive, and patient, even if it involves clipping just one nail at a time; taking it slow is key.

Provide a Calming Touch

Dogs love to be patted and pet, and grooming time is no different. Patting and holding your nervous dog throughout the grooming process can help to reassure your pet that everything is ok and that there is nothing to be afraid of. 


Like humans, several scents are known to have calming effects on dogs. To help calm your dog during grooming, try rubbing some lavender essential oil onto your fingertips and then running your fingers through your pet's fur. The relaxing scent of lavender and the calming effect of touch may help your dog feel more relaxed. 

Dog Appeasing Pheromones

If your canine friend remains nervous or anxious despite your efforts to maintain a calm grooming environment, consider utilizing a synthetic pheromone diffuser. Pheromones, chemical compounds transmitting signals between animals, include a specific compound identified by scientists for inducing a sense of calming relaxation in dogs. Various products have been developed to assist in keeping pets calm during grooming.

When you use a synthetic pheromone diffuser, it bathes your room with an odorless, non-sedative synthetic hormone. This hormone can effectively help relax dogs without affecting humans or other animals. To learn more about using a synthetic pheromone diffuser to calm your dog during grooming, consult your vet.

Medical Sedation for Dogs

If your dog experiences extreme anxiety or fear during grooming, consider visiting your vet to explore medical sedation options.

Your vet may recommend sedation medications such as diazepam, acepromazine, gabapentin, or fluoxetine.

It's crucial to consult your veterinarian before administering any sedation medications to your dog; never give them without professional guidance.

Professional Grooming Services 

Additionally, for a stress-free grooming experience, you may want to explore professional pet grooming services. At our White House Animal Hospital, we offer baths and pet grooming services for all breeds of cats and dogs. Our in-house pet groomer is dedicated to ensuring a positive and comfortable grooming experience for your furry friend. Feel free to inquire about our grooming services for your pet's well-being and appearance.

Does your dog have anxiety when being groomed? Contact our White House vets for more tips on calming your dog.